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Money should not be the number one factor in your decision making. My advice would be to talk to your wife/family first. Determine what is best for you not in the interim but longterm as well. A bump in compensation near term could mean a number of things longterm. If you have the opportunity to invest time with your family, you cant put a price tag on that!

I went through a similar situation recently and it was interesting how one of the companies talked about compensation increase and dangled that carrot in front of me while I was trying to make a decision.

Less money - more time with your family
more money - less time with your family