Yeah I'm a 9-10, 11 in a couple of pairs of tight jeans, and I think I look fine. There are a couple of hateful guys that have made crappy comments to me before, but I just ignore them because they're either insecure or I'm not their type-- and since jerks definitely aren't my type, I'm fine with that. I was a size six once. I looked sick; I'm just not built to be that small. I think guys prefer some curves and something they can hold on to; the size 12 chick in the pic is just right IMO! As long as you're healthy, I think size ain't much but a number... just like age
I have friends who are a size 4-6 and the way they are built, they look great (but they are all short... a 5'10" size 4 looks anorexic a lot of the time and that is probably what the photo above depicts).