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Originally Posted by Ark5thGenGirl
...but really... Why does he BOTHER? Is it the challenge factor or am I just missing something?
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1) Only date someone who is head-over-heels crazy about you. If he does not act like it, don't associate with him anymore.
2) If you DO choose to date him/marry him...do not complain that you accepted the role in the relationship as the one who "is way more interested", instead of the one who does not have to do anything. all relationships are like this. One of the persons is always the one who is wrapped around the other ones finger.
3) another good rule is to ONLY date someone who follows you around...same way you choose a pet at a pet store. the one who comes to YOU is the one you should be with. that sounds bad, but if you don't do that, you will end up just being a doormat.
4) find a guy that nobody wants and you can be assured you will have no issues. same rule applies for guys looking for women. If you date a "Celebrity" type of person, then you have to accept the complete and total nightmare that is involved with that. celebrities are fun to watch, but not to get involved with. those types are more obligated to their celebrity status than to you.
good luck.....keep in mind you have options. dont allow yourself to let this guy play jedi mind tricks on you. Just IGNORE him and move on. the more you ignore, the more they will disappear as if they don't exist.
Edit: Rule #3....follows you around AND you have lots of things in common with them.
Adios