My wife and I have been married 8 years. I knew she was the one because there was basically no drama between us while we dated for 5 years I wasnt looking for a long term relationship especially marriage but she grew on me

. We both get along great and enjoy doing our own thing. I have modded cars over the years and while she just "dosent understand" it she loves me enough to not hassle me about it unless I spend too much of our money on it...which happens from time to time

plus I dont hassle her about her shoe collection. True that marriage can be alot of work but definetly worth it with the right person...although if you think being married is alot of work wait till you have a kid

worth every second though!