[Rodrunner]

Man has any guy ever not gone through this? Jealousy is a very destructive thing, very hard to overcome and not just a youthful emotion. Ok, so she went to the x-mas party and got pukin' drunk without you....did she screw anybody? I'm just sayin' first, regardless of who she got drunk with and talked to, she went home with you, and second, you're not going to change her! Willing her to be the person you want her to be ain't gonna work. You have to let her be herself and if that's not someone you can find happiness with, then you gotta end it. Just be sure there isn't reason to trust her and you're not being overly possesive is all I'm saying.