Ok, please please read and give input
So the basis of this blog is if people in a serious relationship Should go out to bars, etc. with out the sign. other, is it wrong? read the story....
So to begin with my gf and I have trust issues, I care for her very much but we do have our fair share of fights.
I have caught her in numerous lies..
that she was smoking weed, talking to ex bf's stuff like that.
but i lied too. sometimes.
Since working through this we have been better.
I dont ask to much of her, but i do ask some..
One main thing i ask is that she NOT go to the bar without me,
i have had problems with this in the past both with my self, parents, and friends..
to add my dad owns a bar.. no good comes out of it. (is this to much to ask?)
SHES NOT EVEN LEGAL TO DRINK
(Flashback)
part of my trust was also broken when back in dec. she went to a work related xmas party...(she is a banker, these are professional ppl) she said she would have a few.. well i picked her up..she ended up passing out with her head in the toilet because she was so trashed, she puked all night and i left, i was a lil pissed. She said she had two long islands
so she promissed she wouldnt go to the bar without me..
well just today she told me her and her girls are going to put-in-bay for one of thier friends 21st b-day...
she said she wouldnt go without me...
but just found out, i cant go because no boyfriends are allowed.
The bday girls bf isnt....going so i cant. Bullshit?
and she changed her mind. shes going.
She said the chicks parents are going.. not to worry?
So i was kinda upset, she doesnt think it is a big deal...
calls it keeping her from her friends. that i am controling that i dont want her to go with out me...
it bothers me a lot and she doesnt care enough to see if i can go or stay.
i call it drunken slut in put in bay.
What does everyone think?
Should I be mad that she wants to spend the day/night at put in bay at the bars with her girlfriends?