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Originally Posted by Tessa
While I do not disagree with this point -- eventually, the girl gets bored if all you are is teasing and games.
At least I do -- sure, part of the fun is the joking around and flirting phase, but eventually, you have to man up and ask her out. or she'll get bored and think you aren't interested -- ESPECIALLY if she's flirting with you and you play it too cool. She might think you aren't interested and give up.
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Ah, Tessa...the voice of reason
In no way am I advocating teasing or manipulating someone's feelings. I was just simply stating that if you are too forward on the initial approach, there is an opportunity for rejection.
(My advice comes from my personal and friends' experiences)
Of course, the only way to learn something is to try it and you learn to see what works and what doesn't work. The worst that can happen is you hear "No".