I hear ya J, but I don't agree about BC2's gfx. I think they look fantastic(on PC) and it was their style. Besides with the destruction, they kinda had to go that route. Seems now DICE has all the bugs worked out for bf3.
COD is all about twitch skill and kdr, which I'm not the best at. My kdr is usually 1.0 and most of my kills come from stealth. I need the ninja silencer, cold blooded stuff since my aim is crap.