Let me preface this by saying I have 30+ years of MC experience on everything from a YSR50
to sportbikes to cruisers. My current rides are my 140rwhp/360lb Monster S4RS and a Triumph Thruxton. Both of which can get me into trouble easily....
I would suggest an instructed rider course (or 2) and tons of practice in more controlled environments (parking lots, DMV test courses etc). Even with all of this, sh1t happens! You both need to mentally prepare yourselves for the probability of this happening again. The more you ride the more the chance(s).
The primary cause I see for new riders (and even more experienced ones for that matter) is the lack of focus on their riding. For example, site seeing. A motorcycle is not really the best way to go out and see the sites as you should be constantly scanning the road for debris, idiots, animals etc., letting your mind wander is very dangerous. Gotta get/keep your head in the game.
ALWAYS wear the MAXIMUM amount of protection. Even when "just hopping down to the store" and ride like everyone out there is out to get you....
Sorry, just don't wanna sugar coat it...
