[the Kolektor]

Garth Brooks has a song called Unanswered Prayers, maybe it applies to this, maybe not. Either way, good luck. I think this situation can only be answered by you and nobody else on here. Its easy to look in on a situation and tell you what you should and should not do, but only you truly know how you feel and what you are capable of handling, emotionally speaking. In the end, it will be your decision. What are you willing to do? How will you be able to handle it if it does not work out? Does she even feel the same way after all this time?? The time passed is a long time, it allows much change and personal growth on both your parts. It's definitely a tough situation to be in, but in the end, it will work out the way it's supposed to. Good luck.