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Originally Posted by heRS
Don't hold a person's past against them. They may have chosen to change and done a damn fine job of it. Good luck.
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^this.
how many people make decisions that parents, siblings, cousins, and friends use to condemn them? it could have happened 10 years ago, but you still have the memory... my suggestion is to pray about it... maybe it's the feeling you had in the past, how she made you feel then...
my example is that when i was younger, i told many people that i wanted a wife that didnt have kids from a previous marriage or shack up.. but that was when i was younger... as i get older, i realise that the chances of me hooking up with the right person that also has a child, gets greater... today's value of marriage, children, responsibility, etc is totally out of wack.. so there may be sacrafice or compromise you have to make or least willing to make...