[Iroczlover]

you fathers of Divorce are lucky that you get to be part of your childrens lives. as a child of Divorced parents i was NOT allowed to see my father because, the courts saw him as unfit.

Sit your daughter down, & tell her that your rules are for that way you guys can spend time with her. start spending nights with her watching WHAT she wants, eating dinner with her. Taking her out to things you do, if you do dragracing, take her. Let her ride in your car. If you show the car, Take her to a car show, ask her if she wants to bring a friend as well. believe me this works.

Last time we took our kids to our clubs Christmas party, on the way home we invited my sons girlfriend to join us on working on cars & to some events & my 12yr old daughter spoke up, stating she wishes her dad will spend more time with her & she wanted to help working on the cars to. That it seams that its more him & our son then her & him doing it.

Well today we needed to get my rear brakes done on my truck, & the tranny serviced in his Bonne, so they did that today. When I went to town to pick up parts she went with me. when he went to go take the bonne out for a test drive she went with him, while our son stayed in the house watching the fire, to keep the house warm.