You know what, to me everything seemed to be explained and under control until Midnight when "Pete" piped in with the below:
Pete (Nov 9 12:03 AM): Amy computer RULES, and I think if it could yell !!!!!!!!!!!!!! it would in your case.
Pete (Nov 9 12:09 AM): Amy, this is a fun league and everyone enjoys it, there are problems from time to time and we all have lived with them, win or lose, except it and move on . If you can't let go of it. DON'T PLAY.
This looks to me like it was the turning point, was uncalled for and rude. Totally unnecessary, and maybe "Pete" had a problem with being very understanding because he couldn't use the word "except" properly in the sentence. It appeared to me that Amy had moved on, it had been more than 24 hours since it all started (I think)...
Sorry, had to go there, I hope you can "accept" (or is it except?

) my unbiased opinion.
Good luck and really hope it works out for everyone!!!