thanks you guys, the waiting is hard, & not knowing is even harder.
This guy was my best friend & let me listen to Rock & roll for the first time (since we werent allowed to listen to rock in the house) he used to play his KISS Records (Yes RECORDS) down in the basement & I wold come down & listen to them with him. He allowed me to watch Dukes of hazzards & Happy days, Fonz was my second hero, When my mom would have a cow.
He joined the navy
When my dog died, he was on the phone & kept me on the phone LONG distance, While my dad went looking for my dog & the dog that killed him.
Then when We introduced him to his wife ( we my sister in law & I lol, Dragged her to the phone to talk to him) I was part of their wedding, & when they finally moved here when he got out, they allowed me to live with them when things went to CHIT around my own home (my mom had married a sex offender & I couldnt live at the house)
When I would pretend to be sick because I didnt want to go to school, he banned me from my horse, until I proved I was better, I took care of his 3 daughters & he taught me how to cook & do dishes right lol.
Then things got worse, my step father (BKA the man the witch married) decided he didnt like my now brother in law, & refused to allow me to go to horse shows if he was around, My Earl stood in front of everyone at the horse show & told TMWM & everyone that he didnt want me to hang out with them because of the fact that he wanted the Innocent girl for himself, since he was a SO.
That was the last time I heard from them until a couple years ago, we managed to get together once before he went back to Cali,He wanted to make sure I marred a man that would take care of me & my kids (just like a father
). & then we lost contact with each other again.
I havent seen the 3 girls since the late 80s & hope they knew what their father did for someone else besides them.