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Old 11-05-2010, 09:45 AM   #7
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If someone only spoke with me once in two years, and had a laundry list like that to hang out...I certainly would stay the hell off the diving board to keep from jumping in to that pool. Especially with the existing issues between everyone involved.

RUN. AWAY. This will destroy your marriage, your home, your finances...everything. These two have proven that they cannot take care of themselves or their child, and have done something that has the state ready to completely remove them from the picture. Do you really want your brother in law or sister in law demanding THEIR kid at your front door at 2 AM in a stoned/drunken/violent rage because they feel it is THEIR right?

And as a parent of an Asperger's child, they are the most creative kids out there. It is when they are abused or ridiculed that they become so inwardly focused. Something has this kid running to a safe place. These parents have done something bad to the child.
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