Look at it this way. You're single, 29 (same age as me), you have a Camaro, and a daughter who loves you. In time, if you want, you'll find love again. My suggestion as a child of divorce is to stay out of your ex's personal life as much as possible. Try your best to keep things civil. Your daughter is the #1 priority. I wouldn't feel self-conscious about your eye either. My cousin was born blind in her right eye and I didn't even know till she told me a few years ago. You have more great times ahead of you everything will turn around eventually.