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Originally Posted by prostock69
See my response above. She knows you want her which makes it so easy for her to play you. Don't be a door mat. Girls like strong men physically and mentally. And don't forget, you teach people how to treat you. If she is treating you like a second rate boyfriend it's because you have allowed her to do so. Stop the cycle and move on without her.
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^^ could not agree more. She is wanting to be chased, not caught. I'm not sure how old either of you are, but I am guessing early 20's. If this is story is going on with people latter 20's and up, then there is some psychosocial development issues. In other words, she's "damaged." I work in psychiatry. I spend more time with "damaged" people than healthy people.
At this point, it's time to focus on "self", what do you do for career or are going to do? What are you doing in your free time?
Two bulls are standing on top of a hill on the pasteur. They are looking down on all the cows out grazing. The younger bull looks at the father bull and yells "hey dad!, why don't we run down there and (blank) us one of them cows?" The father bull looks back at him and quietly says "why don't we walk down there and (blank) them all?"