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Originally Posted by "prima"Donna
Thanks Tessa, you are a sweet young lady and very wise beyond your years...you have a big heart and are so kind.... 
I am glad you got something out of my advice....it is good to have no regrets when someone dies...it is hard enough to lose that person, but even worse if you were estranged or at odds with them when they were alive... 
I have lost too many people that I love dearly by this point in my life...my toughest losses were my parents...this Saturday will be 16 years since my mom died and there is not a day that goes by that I don't miss her...my dad will be gone 2 years this Sept...I am fortunate that they knew how much I loved them and cared for them, so I have no regrets, except for missing them more than I could have ever imagined.... 
Thanks for your prayers, they are much appreciated...  |
I wholeheartedly agree - I used to be terrible at holding grudges - but since my divorce I have grown so much and have learned to let things go (takes a while sometimes but I'm much better at it
). It doesn't do us any good to stay angry over stupid things.
Glad to hear he's still hanging in there and I'm sure all of us will continue to send well wishes and prayers and all that warm fuzzy karma stuff over to you and your buddy and his family.