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Originally Posted by Tessa
This is so true (and beautiful the way you've said it  ) Donna. I have been lucky so far and not lost too many people I have loved dearly - and the few I have, I have been fortunate enough to have a fond last memory of. Doesn't make losing them easier but it erases some of the "what if's"
Stories like this make me sad still :(. My BF (20 years) has diabetes and it scares me sometimes to think that I could lose her if anything goes wrong. I can only imagine how stressful it is waiting and hoping your BF gets better and not knowing. I hope your friend gets better soon I'll keep you and him (and his family) in warm thoughts. |
Thanks Tessa, you are a sweet young lady and very wise beyond your years...you have a big heart and are so kind....
I am glad you got something out of my advice....it is good to have no regrets when someone dies...it is hard enough to lose that person, but even worse if you were estranged or at odds with them when they were alive...
I have lost too many people that I love dearly by this point in my life...my toughest losses were my parents...this Saturday will be 16 years since my mom died and there is not a day that goes by that I don't miss her...my dad will be gone 2 years this Sept...I am fortunate that they knew how much I loved them and cared for them, so I have no regrets, except for missing them more than I could have ever imagined....
Thanks for your prayers, they are much appreciated...