it's the silver rallys on the car - render you invisible to idiots - that's why you get cut off
But ya people are supposed to not always be dicks...hard to find those people...
Hell, I'm not a girl that can't hold my own door - I don't expect a man to hold it for me (hold it open for me to grab it when I'm right behind you, yes, don't let it close in my face...but you don't have to stand back and let me go through first - I'm ok with a casual nicety)...but I have men where I work that, while you hold the door for them to grab, will walk right thru like you're holding it open for them...um?? I'm holding it so it doesn't slam in your face, I'm not a doorwoman there buddy...LOL