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Originally Posted by Finchman20
i just took 30 minutes in the middle of the night to read this whole thread.... and i would like to know the outcome!
where you at bozbot? i hope things worked out!!
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Hey everyone. sorry I have not been on the site in a long time. I have been going thru hell and back.
i dont even know where to begin. so i guess i will just give the abridged version.
I learned she is pregnant.
I move back in with her. she quits her job.
I sell the car back to the dealership.
I ask her to marry me. she says yes.
things are good for about a week.
we get into a fight about money.
she gives me back the ring.
we try to go to counseling. (she ends up going to only 1 session)
she says she is unwilling to stay and work things out and moves to her mothers house 3 hours away.
she wont let me be involved with the birthing process.
I seek a lawyers advise.
they pretty much tell me i have no rights until the baby is born and i prove that it is mine.
so all in all i have now have an ex fiancee that is pregnant with my child of which i will not get to see its birth. and i no longer have my camaro.
losing the camaro i can deal with
losing the girl i can deal with
I am going out of my mind insane about not being able to be a part of my childs birth. and by the way things have been going it does not look like she is going to make seeing my child any easier after it is born
now on top of all this. I was looking to get a job in florida before i met her and have now found out that I can get the job. it makes more than i make now and the cost of living is much much cheaper there but now i have the dilemma of going or not because I will be so far from my child.
i wish i could have given you guys a positive update...