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Originally Posted by brtaus
Please, don't get me wrong; I love my wife and my life and everything about it, and my wife is in no way shallow or superficial or anything like that.
But she sees her buying an $80 purse and just that, $80, which we can afford without really thinking about our finances. So, in that same thinking, she sees me wanting to spend $800 on a suspension kit as just that, spending $800 which we can afford but I think she just sees how much it is all at once and thinks how it will affect our finances.
I guess I shouldn't complain, I did buy the camaro without really consulting with her. I mean, we talked about it and looked at them and what not but when it came down to it, I got off work one day, went to the dealer and left with a camaro.
I just wanted to vent my frustrations about wanting to mod my camaro and catching grief about it from the wife with other C5 members.
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but when she buys an $80 purse and a $75 pair of shoes every other week, that adds up reeeaaal quick, and THAT is what needs to be explained to her. Just had an idea here too: just start taking $100 and setting it aside everytime she buys a purse/shoes till you have the money saved up for your parts, since she doesn't seem to think that is a big deal