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After meeting them both, I can honestly say I am shocked...
The 16 year old is truly wise beyond her years, looks, acts, talks, and interacts like a 30 year old.
The 25 year old is a straight shooter, dated girls across the bored, and when I spoke to him directly and asked..
"WTF?"
He said the following:
He was lied to when he met her
Few weeks had passed before he found out
Feelings formed, on both sides
She told him her real age
Friends told him she was older (her friends)
He said they are just good friends
He said to me shes cool, fun to talk to, same interested at the moment
No expectations on either side
I spoke to the girl and she said (about him)
Nothing sexual
Really good friends
Shes likes him - a lot.
She likes the zero drama, mature mentality of an older guy
She enjoys being around him
He makes her feel special, but not an object.
Then she said this and I quote:
"I was told the point of a relationship is to be happy, honest, content, and comfortable. I am all those things with him and I can honestly say I love being around him. Is that wrong for me to know what I want? Besides, why does everyone care so much about life. I think people should focus on their own lives... isn't that the more mature thing to do?"
w . t . f
Im stumped.
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