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In my opinion, I think the gap is way too wide. The young lady hasn't even had a chance to "grow in to her own skin" yet. I have a younger sister who is 15. Let's say she was 16 and she was seeing a guy or "in a relationship", with a guy that's 25. I'd go a little nuts. Whether or not the relationship is physicaly or not, the mindset for both parties involved is on two completely different levels. Now, if they are going to remain together then like others have mentioned, they have to grow togther. Each year will present a new challenge. As the young lady gets older, her ideas about love and relationships may change, she also may not like the feeling of being tied down at such a young age, and what will happen when she turns 21!? The guy may feel the same way. You never know. BUT....if they are happy, and the guy isn't breaking any laws, parents on both sides approve, let them have at it. But again, thats just my opinion and I'm sure others have echoed this same though...
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