[2001ragtop]

All relationships have a person that likes the other a little bit more. It is clear YOU are the one who is that person (you are the chaser, not the chasee).

Your situation is BLEAK.

1) If you combine having a "girlfriend" for 6 full years and you are also saying you have a "roommate", that right there sounds bad.

2) In general just use the following rule: ONLY date women who act/behave insanely crazy about you and jealous regarding you, otherwise you are completely wasting your time with whoever you are dating. (Unless of course you don't mind being a lap-dog/doormat/flavorless/pointless/invisible/type of guy.)

3) ALL GUYS know when theres a problem with their women. It sounds like you need to VERY QUICKLY try to get the truth about what is going on, then if needed, just break up and move on. Don't try to convince someone you are special. Just find someone who already believes that (or find someone more gullable who does not perceive you as a goofball).

4) Based on what you described, the ONLY surprise is that some other guy has not swiped your woman a long time ago. IF YOU THINK YOUR WOMAN IS A JEWEL, YOU CAN BE CERTAIN SOMEONE ELSE DOES TOO. (Why do you think people get married?)

5) it can be quite difficult to find the ultimate woman for you but they exist. the people who are aware of it, would never, ever, ever have to create a thread like this one.

EDIT: 6) Don't panic if you break up. There are 6 billion desperate women in the world who are just looking for a nice guy. It's not the end of the world. Just move on and look for someone who worships the ground you walk on. (Like when you look for a pet. Get the pet who RUNS to you immediately. Trust me.)