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Originally Posted by bozbot
well i guess that other guy lost out. you seem like a great person, I always see you on the boards with nothing but nice things to say to everyone. you have a very lucky husband.
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WELL, AREN'T YOU JUST THE SWEETEST THING FOR SAYING THAT TO ME AND TOTALLY MAKING MY DAY!!!!....
I am actually blushing and quite choked up by your very kind words...
I just know the right girl is out there for you, and I hope she will be worthy of someone like you...the reason I told you my little story is to give you hope when you are so down right now...I do believe that things happen for a reason, even if we don't know it at the time...
In quite a weird twist of fate, that original boyfriend and I saw each other again almost 20 yrs after we originally tried to get back together because our sons just happened to be on the same youth street hockey team!!!...can you imagine that???!!!...
The best part is that we enjoyed catching up on the years that had passed and he said he never got over letting me 'get away'...and another cool coincidence is that his son and my son are the same age, but we both lived in different towns, so we never ran into each other again for all that time...my son's name is Mark Christopher, and his son's name is Christopher, and Christopher had a twin named Mark that died at birth!!!...his daughter's name is Melissa, and that is what I would have named my daughter if I ever had one!!!...
His parents always liked me the best of all his girlfriends (and his wife too)...and another weird coincidence is that I worked with his brother-in-law at one of my jobs, but didn't make the connection for 5 yrs, until just before our company moved to South Carolina and we both lost our jobs...it sure is a small world....
I know this post is turning into a 'book', but I just wanted to try my best to give you hope and tell you not to get discouraged, and try your best to live a good life and good things will come back to you...let me know what happens, I care...and I will be sure to remind my husband how 'lucky' he is to have me!!!...lol...
and, thanks again for saying that...it means a lot to me...I try my best to always treat others the same way I would want them to treat me - "The Golden Rule"....good words to live by..............