[Matrix]

Thats a tough one to be in.

At the end of the day, you have to know your limits and the strain of lack of funds can do to a relationship. I dont care what you say, you need a certain amount of money to keep you happy, Love by itself will not keep you happy. Money by its self will not make you happy, YOU MUST HAVE A BALANCE.


It appears you dont have a balance and you should/could have seen the toll it was taking on her/relationship and talked about how to resolve it with her. She sees the car as a diversion from her and a money pit in her eyes.

Women(most) are very future orientated, men are more now orienated and need instant gratification. She sees the car as a drag on finances and killing a future that she has in her head like a new place/family etc etc.

If its causing you this much trouble and you still ache for HER, do I really need to tell you what to do?

BTW, she better be worth it or I'll kick your ass over the decision your gonna need to make lol!!!!