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Originally Posted by 1320junkie
Ok she probably thinks she made a mistake by letting you move in with her and thinks you may not manage your money well because you have a large car payment but not your own place. I think you should be paying your rent or mortgage on your own place before you get a car payment. You broke up with your girl and got put out of her place...now you have to go home to momma. you gotta be a man bro..once you leave home you arent supposed to go back. This time after you go home regroup get a plan and alwayes..always have your own place...never place yourself at the mercy of a woman...not even your wife because at the end of the day YOU have to depend on you and so does your woman....the right woman that is.
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again, i think you are right. i have a good job with decent money. i am saddled with student loans tho. like i said I will only be back at my moms for a little while to get myself back on my feet. i know the car was a bad decision financially but at the time i really didnt see myself getting involved with anyone seriously (i had just gotten out of long relationship) the new gf came along and we hit it off. everything was going great. i prob moved in too soon but then again she new about all my finances before i moved in and it didnt pose a problem until a month later all of a sudden.