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I'm pretty positive this thread really didn't make you feel any better about the situation. Shes shady, you don't want to hurt her feelings by breaking it off without knowing for sure. Most "guy friends" are other options, no argument about that, and I said MOST not all. If you don't even know their names, you can be pretty positive they are other options. If shes not cheating now, shes lining up those options and sometime, likely when alcohol is involved, she will cheat, feel guilty and tell you about it (if she has any feelings for you at all), you will be pissed, she will cry, you will console her... take her back - rinse and repeat.
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say she was one of the girls that's had everything handed to her growing up, never had to be responsible for any of her actions, is selfish, materialistic and snaps on you at the drop of a hat if you don't give her her way.
Bottom line, if you can''t establish trust you might as well end it now and cut your losses. Staying together is only causing you both stress, you worry about what she does, she wants to think you are doing to same to shade her own guilt.
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