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Originally Posted by jrboyd_1980
Ok need some advice. Really not sure how to handle this.
I told Chelly we shouldn't worry about anything till we get the byopsi done and get a definate yea or nah. And that's exactly what she is doing. If I ask her how she's doing now, her response is fine, just got to study for the test tomorrow. So, do I just act like everything is ok, do I try to be re-assuring that everything will be alright? It's really hard for me right now to be the strong one, when I am scared to death. Can't show her I am worried though because then she'll worry.. Really don't know what I'm suppose to do here. She in her room studying and she comes in and gives me kiss on cheek and makes some corny joke about me getting an ear reduction so I can use it to get butt implants. (I have big ears and no butt fyi). So what do i do?
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My friend , you will prob. be doing a lot of both those things , you will have to play it by ear ( no punn intended ) she will need love , understanding , strength , support , your going to have to go along with her mode and try to figure out what she needs at the time , there is no easy answer on things of this nature :( sorry jr