[Zeus]

Originally Posted by 1320junkie

Well, first off for what it's worth...You have to man up....how can you expect a woman to respect you if you don't respect yourself? you stated that you have low self esteem...you need to handle that issue first. Secondly dont kiss a woman's ass. You can be nice to her, compliment her etc..but no ass kissing..give in sometimes but always stand strong as a man, you need to work out that esteem issue first to be able to do that. Remember she can not be the source of your esteem. You guys live together but yet she stays out until the wee hours of the morning? That's not cool and contrary to popular belief a whole lot of cheating goes on during normal business hours...long story short the lady you speak of does not respect you...if she is cheating or if she is not...she doesnt respect you and you are tolerating it which means you dont respect yourself (self esteem again). I respect myself therefor people respect me, she is only doing what you allow her to get away with. Respect yourself first and I think you will realize that this woman is not for you. Love can come and go with a person becaue it never really dies. But once the trust is gone....it's more than likely gone forever. You dont have to act like a "dyck" just because you have one...just be a man. Make the hard decision and dont kiss women's azz they will respect that. Sometime's I raise hell just because..thats what men do sometimes..lol...women do the same but at the end of the day what I say goes....now I do compromise at times to keep things in balance and everyday I know i find away to show my lady that she is loved and I handle business. At any given point if she starts to act up or disrespect me in a serious way..she knows.. I wont tolerate it.....don't know if any of this is helping you or not..but if it were me she'd be gone.

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