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Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro
So the past couple weeks my girlfriend has been going out and hanging out with her girlfriends. She stays out as late as 2:30 at night and stuff. She is always on the phone texting and etc. She checks my phone non-stop but i cant lay a finger on hers? She always tilts her phone away from me and turns the screen off after everything (i-phone) Last night we were sleeping and i woke up to the sound of her talking to "amanda" she was laughing and carrying on, at 3:00 in the morning no one talks to their best friends about nothing am i right? She always thinks im cheating or texting someone else also. I just need a few pointers on what you guys think.
Thanks, Logan
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Dude, leave. I've said it a million times. The minute I wonder and question, I'm getting a divorce. I won't live like that. It's counter-active to you gaining self esteem. And if it's true, don't think it's you. It's her breaking an agreement and that's it.
Advice, next time you meet a girl, just assume you'll only be with her a short while. Pre-plan the break-up and expect it. Let her do what she wants. If she digs you, you'll know it. STILL don't expect it to go too long. You'll know when it's time to trust her. And don't even beggin to hope a girl will be faithful until that 'You know it' time comes. I've had girls tell me that it doesn't seem like I even care what they do. (including my wife) My answer; "I don't! I hope you'll be with only me but you can do what you want." It's worked out well over the years. Nobody likes to be watched over.
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Originally Posted by 1320junkie
Well, first off for what it's worth...You have to man up....how can you expect a woman to respect you if you don't respect yourself? you stated that you have low self esteem...you need to handle that issue first. Secondly dont kiss a woman's ass. You can be nice to her, compliment her etc..but no ass kissing..give in sometimes but always stand strong as a man, you need to work out that esteem issue first to be able to do that. Remember she can not be the source of your esteem. You guys live together but yet she stays out until the wee hours of the morning? That's not cool and contrary to popular belief a whole lot of cheating goes on during normal business hours...long story short the lady you speak of does not respect you...if she is cheating or if she is not...she doesnt respect you and you are tolerating it which means you dont respect yourself (self esteem again). I respect myself therefor people respect me, she is only doing what you allow her to get away with. Respect yourself first and I think you will realize that this woman is not for you. Love can come and go with a person becaue it never really dies. But once the trust is gone....it's more than likely gone forever. You dont have to act like a "dyck" just because you have one...just be a man. Make the hard decision and dont kiss women's azz they will respect that. Sometime's I raise hell just because..thats what men do sometimes..lol...women do the same but at the end of the day what I say goes....now I do compromise at times to keep things in balance and everyday I know i find away to show my lady that she is loved and I handle business. At any given point if she starts to act up or disrespect me in a serious way..she knows.. I wont tolerate it.....don't know if any of this is helping you or not..but if it were me she'd be gone.
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Dude. You're smarter than even YOU know.
