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Relationships:
1) Be an engineer about it. make a list of things you must have. and make a list of things you can't tolerate. If that person is doing something you know you can't stand or tolerate, and they aren't going to change, you need to look for someone else. If you guys are WAY too different, you're probably in a lot of trouble.
2) birds of a feather flock together.
3) when you finally do meet someone who is in the window of what you want, don't lose it. if you do lose it, learn from the experience. if you start over, don't put all your eggs in one basket.
4) a REAL relationship takes work. talk it out. Put your foot down as needed if you are upset. As others said, when you DO work things out, that is like putting mortar into the foundation. you just made things stronger/better.
Last edited by 2001ragtop; 08-06-2008 at 10:37 AM.
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