I find the stereotypical SoCal girl almost everywhere, including museums (I use to work at one). No matter how high or low you go in the social sphere they're very much all the same (sorry, I've had enough collisions, call me cynical). Some of my closest of friends have found girlfriends that they think are truly "the ones" but in reality have very little in common with them other than a mutual physical attraction. Now a lot of these girls do finally become women, but that's after sleeping with a ton of guys and figuring that's just no way to live, and I'm just not up for damaged goods. I always tell some of my older cousins when we get together that I'm still trying to "conquer" the California girl. Heck, one of my cousins even said "I had to go all the way to New Mexico to bring my wife back home" in response to that shared sentiment. I'm not looking for wifey, I'm not even looking for a girlfreind. It would just be nice to find a cool girl that's down with being herself and wants the same in a guy. Now every girl from SoCal isn't a super-freaklooking for the next hit of....whatever, or a complete ditz and all the other stereotypes you assume to be true of California girls, but the ones that aren't are generally tucked away deep inside somewhere I have yet to find.
With the bleak picture I've painted I have to say that there's potential, she's just not home right now...she's on the other side of the coast working full time now that she's graduated. Even then that's a "wait and see" thing. Wish me well.
