BlacLac02, I also do some detailing on the side as a result on people seeing my black SS.
I was fortunate to be able to order the SS, and I asked the dealer not to touch the exterior. I've tried several different waxes/polishes, and for me, Zaino works best.
I've learned all the tips/methods for keepin the SS looking new. (And it doesn't hurt that it's not my daily driver.)